You Don't Choose Who To Love » My mom was selfish. She didn't care about how her having an affair, destroyed our family and affected my sister, my dad, and me. But two can play at that game. Now it's my turn to be selfish. "You don't choose who to love" she once told me, well now it's her time to listen to that blood boiling sentence. Because I, Kristen Casanova, have fallen hard for the one person I shouldn't.